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Embracing Simple Moments This Holiday Season
Here we are in mid December. All the holiday hustle and bustle in full swing. How are y’all doing? I am doing my best to continue the promise I made to myself. Soaking in what this season is, enjoying the magic and wonder of it all.
Now that my kids are older, my perfect is different. My reality is different. My joy is having all of us in a room together, watching a Christmas movie. The magic is in those moments together, they are the simple moments. They are what my heart truly needs this season.
I have let go of some of my usual decorating. Decorating anything for any season/reason is part of who I am. I didn’t let it go purposely, it just hasn’t happened. And crazy enough it is not bothering me that some of it has not been done.
Most, if not all of my shopping has been done online this year. I have had little to no desire to go out the stores. My priorities are shifting and I have naturally been leaning into that shift. The countdown is in full swing. I hope I can continue leaning into what feels peaceful and joyful.
There is no right way to do this season, there is no perfect. What you and your sweet ones will remember are the feelings and experiences you had together. Make this week a week of soaking in the small, simple moments.
Standing in my power,
Torre
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Goal Chasing-Savor the Journey
“Chasing your goal is important but don’t forget to savor the journey along the way. Every step,every lesson. and every moment matters just as much as the finish line. Stay focused, stay present and enjoy the ride!” -Gael Monfils
THIS. This is so good!! Gael Monfils is one of my favorite tennis players on the APT tour. He is electric on the court. You want to watch him, seriously look him up if you haven’t seen him play. You won’t be disappointed.
We can become so focused on achieving the goal. We completely miss the day-to-day journey. Staying present within the daily grind is my rough spot. My mind seems to look forward more often than I would like.
This is such a wonderful reminder. Staying present and soaking up the gift of the journey is something I don’t want to miss out on. Life is too short to miss those moments. They help build up to that next version, they are the stepping stones to getting to that finish line.
That last little line-ENJOY THE RIDE! OMG, so much truth to that! Have freaking fun while you are goal chasing! Because again, life is too short not to! I will admit there have been moments in my life. During my goal chasing, I have watched my goal working around me. I have given myself moments to sit in the joy of it. I take a moment to smile and think, “I can’t believe I am doing this.” I can hear myself say, “I love this, so incredibly much.” How often do any of us truly do that? It has been a while since I have.
Set those goals and savor the journey to achieving them. Your story does not lie in the achievement. It is within the day-to-day determination to get there.
Standing in my power,
Torre
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How to Stand in Your Power This Monday
Its MONDAY! Let’s freaking go! New week, new day, new possibilities. Here is the deal, you either dread. this day or you embrace this day. The choice is yours.
I choose to see the gift in Monday. I choose to find the joy within it. Even when I know that the day ahead may be hard. The week ahead may be hard. I am here for it.
I have realized that this day is mine to make of it. This day, this life is 100% my responsibility to live. How am I going to show up for myself? It is completely a choice…how do you show up on a Monday?
Standing in my power,
Torre
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Stay Warm: My Winter Running Outfit Guide
On the subject of winter/cold weather running, walking etc…it is what you do before you walk out the door that will keep you warm-ish, safe and feeling like a rock star!🌟
Layering is key. When I started running I was a “cold” runner-which in my world meant LOTS of layering…like too much layering. I never wanted to feel cold. Clearly, we all now know I have a complete dislike of the cold. I, at the time didn’t take in the 20 degree rule. As you run/walk plan on feeling 20 degrees warmer than it actually is.
Each winter training season I have refined my gear situation. I have become less of a “cold” runner and more of a “smart” runner-ok with being chilly before the activity actually starts. Being small, it is important for me to streamline what I wear, I feel bulky in layers. I like layers tight to my frame so movement doesn’t feel difficult.
This is my current WHAT I WEAR during WINTER TRAINING SEASON:
Layer 1: 32 Degrees Heat base layer long sleeve. LOVE these shirts!! I have a ton of them in black, white and gray. They come in packs of two I think. Every fall I grab a pack or two at Costco.
Layer 2: A thicker long sleeve. Depending on temps it could be crewneck or turtleneck. I have a ton, different styles, thicknesses, colors. Nike, Under Armor, Lulu, Lulu Dupes, Athleta. My main requirement is that it fits sleek to my body.
Top Layer: Depending on temps, a vest. I LOVE vests! Marc thinks I have a problem 😂. I seriously have a vest in every color, several are of course monogramed.🩷 If the temps are super cold, I will wear a running jacket. My favorite is a New Balance black jacket we received as our MIT Coaches jacket a few seasons ago.
On my head: I am a beanie hat human. I have tried head bands that cover my ears-yep they never stay put. I have a kid sized head, no matter what brand head brand I try it never works. I now have a great collection of beanies that are colorful and fun. I love a beanie that has a great pom on top.
On my hands: I usually wear gloves unless it is really cold- I also have a pair of gortex mittens. My gloves are I think Head running gloves, purchased at Costco. I use them more as I carry a hand held water bottle. I am starting to research heated gloves…they may or may not be on my Christmas list.😉
On my legs: I wear running tights-one layer. I have tried the 32 Degrees Heat base layer under my tights and they were bulky and uncomfortable for me. My legs don’t seem to bother me as much as my arms. I am loving black tights. I have tried several different brands but right now, I have multiple pairs of tights from Gap Factory Fit.
On my feet: Balega socks-I have worn them for years and years. I LOVE them! Of course, my running shoes! Right. now I am running in Brooks Adrenaline. I need to hop over to Fleet Feet Columbus in this off season to get re-fitted. The staff is AMAZING!! They analyze the heck out of your feet, your stride etc. Always making sure you are in the best shoe for you. Should be doing this at least once a year…it has been longer than that for me. It is time! Honestly, I can’t wait to get over there to do it!
This is my basic list…I do change things up all depending on what Mother Nature brings us. I may change my beanie for a baseball hat, gloves/no gloves, two base layer shirts vs. one. I have learned flexibility and can now change my outfit on the fly.
This is my list, each runner/walker dresses differently. I have friends that will run in shorts all winter long, I can’t imagine 😂🥶 but it works for them. I keep trying different combinations of gear to see what works best for me. Anything I forgot to add? What would be an item that you could not live without during the cold season?
Oh and on another level-SPECTATORS! Cold weather sports spectating is a THING! I was completely unaware until Tuck started playing baseball, then football. As girls tennis is always in the fall and finishes before the cold hits. Now that Marin is playing college tennis…the main season is January-April so I am adding to my cold weather spectating gear!
CLUTCH ITEMS: a BIG, LONG crazy warm winter coat. I am now also seeing super cool “sleeping bag” type coats made just for this purpose. Heated gear-they are all over Amazon! I learned from a football mom about heated vests…OMG life changing! Beanies for sure, hand/foot warmers. Blankets and a Yeti full of HOT coffee!☕️
HAPPY COLD SEASON Y’ALL! Hope you find this helpful!
Standing in my power,
Torre
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Get Out of Your Comfort Zone This Winter
It is for sure winter here in Columbus. OMG it is freaking COLD!! I am not a winter human at all…I so don’t understand people that are. You maybe one of those winter lovers. Tell me why you love it, help me understand. I LOVE the warm air, the sun beaming down on my skin, my toes in the green grass, you get it. I don’t even mind the crazy humidity of an Ohio summer. Bundling up in my massive head to toe winter coat to go out in this frigid weather is its own sport-I totally feel like the kid in the movie A Christmas Story!
With this said, I have challenged myself this winter…to get comfortable with the cold. In order to make that happen I have to get uncomfortable first. As a runner that lives in Ohio, I MUST train in the cold. Each winter season has felt colder and has become more of a challenge for me. During this off season I am pushing myself out into the cold for short miles. One, to acclimate to the winter climate before the next training season. Two, to experiment with layering-jackets, hats, gloves, base layers etc. Three, to push outside my comfort zone.
Number three being the most important. Getting outside of that cozy zone, where it is so easy to live. It’s kind of great in that zone, isn’t it? It is great but growth and true living doesn’t happen there. I have been hanging out in comfort for a minute or two recently. Now is my time to get uncomfortable once again. It doesn’t always have to be a big uncomfortable, it just needs to be outside of that zone. Think about it, what is your uncomfortable at this moment? Are you sitting in the comfort zone-waiting? Get up, let’s go…time get bold maybe even a little scared. Trust me it will be worth it.
Standing in my power,
Torre
